I was helping my mother-in-law the other day bring up some canned food from her food storage so she could make spaghetti for various friends that needed a bit of help. Cooking meals for other people is, in fact, something my in-laws do quite a bit in part because they enjoy doing so as well as being one of their ways of doing charitable work.
Anyway, by then time I was done I had brought up a dozen 28-ounce cans of spaghetti sauce. This was almost an entire row of cans from her Harvest food storage racks! And the sad part is that it was for a single meal. Granted, there were at least a handful of families that benefited but I couldn't help but ponder "what if we had to feed these people three meals a day, every day?" Obviously, our food storage wouldn't last long at all.
For those that have seen the recent Hobbit movie I found myself cringing when the Dwarves showed up to the Hobbit's house unexpectedly and ate him out of house-and-home the whole time thinking "yup, that's exactly what happens!"
While I'm not worried about feeding people I don't even know, close family and friends would be people that are very likely to show up TEOTWAWKI+1 with their hands out and mouths open. And, while I've written about this topic in the past it's always been from a standpoint of a moral obligation to do so, not purely from a logistical "can I do it?" standpoint.
You see, the "can I do it" standpoint has little to do with whether I should be helping people that otherwise could do so but choose not to; Rather, it's simply asking whether I, according to my expectations of the disaster, can feed people who need help... in this case, most likely family and friends?
I would say that in all but the most devastating of scenarios I could do so. Should I? Well, I've often heard people comment on forums and other blogs that they would have no problem shutting the door on anyone that didn't show up with a U-Haul of food and equipment. To me, that's just not being either realistic or a good human being.
After all, I would think I would have a hard time willfully surviving if all of my family and friends had perished. Maybe a honest-to-goodness civilization-altering scenario would change my mind, I don't know.
Back to the point of the post, I was shocked at how much food had disappeared from my mother-in-laws food storage for one simple meal. If this was food saved for just my family, for example, we could have had enough for several dinners (maybe a week's worth) rather than just one meal. Multiply this scenario out over a few weeks and what you thought was enough to last your family for months was quickly depleted.
So, we're back to square one: do I or don't I share my preps? Honestly, I flip-flop almost every time I think about the topic. It's a tough call either way. I truly hope you make the right one.