If There’s Anything That I’ve Learned About Prepping The Past Few Months…

crowded…it’s that I have no idea how I would really be able to survive if SHTF. Seriously. You see, there’s a weird conundrum afoot with respect to this particular problem. On the one hand we have the belief in OPSEC, save yourself (and your immediate family), too bad for everybody else mentality that is generally a part of most prepper’s mentalities. Yet, on the other hand, it’s fairly clear that in any true long term, SHTF, mutant zombie biker scenario you really can’t go it alone–even as a family unit–and you, therefore, MUST include additional people and families into your prepping to aid with security, gardening, and any number of other survival-related tasks.

The problem, obviously, is that of (1) either convincing your family and close friends to see life and the future the way that you do and, thereby, encouraging them to prepare or (2) spending your own hard-earned money to purchase supplies such as food with the expectation that YOU will be supplying them these basic needs and in return these people will do what’s needed, such as pull guard duty, wash clothes, cook meals, tend the garden, etc. I also recognize that this is an “either/or” fallacy and that there are potentially other possible choices but I feel that most of us are going to be facing one of the two aforementioned options, like it or not.

As for what I’ve learned the past few months…

  1. With respect to point one above: Most people plainly do NOT see the future the way that I do… and I’m afraid they never will. Regardless of what people say, no close family or friends (other than my in-laws) attempt any level of preparedness at all. None whatsoever and it still amazes me. People even talk about things like an economic collapse, the dollar being worthless, and so on but what conclusion do they draw from it? None. Sometimes it makes me wonder if I’M THE CRAZY ONE. Maybe I am. I’m not saying TEOTWAWKI will occur tomorrow or even next week; heck, I haven’t a clue. But I can see the writing on the wall. Why does nobody else?
  2. With respect to point two above: It’s VERY hard living with other people. Due to our personal life tragedy a few months back we’ve had numerous family and friends staying with us up until about two weeks ago and I can honestly say I’m glad everyone is gone. And, as a result, I can’t say that I would really want the vast majority of my family and friends to be living under the same roof as me. Just a few months time was enough to remind me how set in my ways I am. Therefore, I’m not seeing how it would even work logistically anymore. Sure, I had thoughts and some plans but maybe now I need to reconsider it all. I’m not so sure that I would either want to suppor these people OR attempt to rely on them to do anything I needed done in a SHTF scenario.
  3. With respect to “other possible choices”: I don’t know about you but I’ve looked in the past for like-minded people and essentially had no luck. It makes me wonder where you all are! (Come to think of it you must be living in Texas.) The world is rife with people who say things and have the best of intentions but very few who actually take action. And when you put it all together that what it’s all about: finding people who not only see things the way that you or I do but also who are willing, ready, and able to take action to prepare themselves for the future and, in so doing, will not burden or hinder you and I to do the same. Thus far I’ve met none of these people. If you have then consider yourself very fortunate.

Ultimately, I’d say that if things could really get as bad as some predict during a SHTF scenario then we’re all going to be very lucky to get through it unscathed despite what we do. That said, I’d rather have a good plan in place, supplies to see me through, and people to rely on but thus far that’s not entirely the case. I truly hope you have better luck than I.


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5 responses to “If There’s Anything That I’ve Learned About Prepping The Past Few Months…”

  1. Catherine

    I do as much as I can on a strict budget, and have talked to my children and friends. One child and one granchild have done some prepping, but most friends don’t think that they can do anything to stop what is coming so they don’t do anything. It is so frustrating. I certainly can’t take care of all of them. Guess I’ll just keep on doing and praying.

  2. Methane Creator

    Yeppir, it’s got to be happening in Texas! Having worked with the Waco Preppers and seen it grow exponentially (a lot), this group is actively creating smaller cells that will help each other during a disaster and still support the entire group during training exercises. No group can support 500+ folks during a national disaster and hope to remain intact and sane. We feel small clusters of group chosen members will be able to survive and work together better. Some groups may splinter and others may merge as supplies are able to support them. Training, Practice, Prep Storage, and Education is encremental in soldering a cohesive group. Our last must-have Prep is trying to find dairy chickens.

  3. CM

    While there is no single answer, there are thoughts that can make a difference.

    IF, big IF, you plan to bug-in then you really need to know your neighbors. If you bug-out, you need to know the area you will be in better than you know your own home. As I’ve thought before, you have to know your neighbors and their strengths. Do not focus on ‘weaknesses’ in their prep level or skill set. The point is to improve the lot of everyone you may have to count on.

    I don’t have every kind of material I may need. But, my neighbor has things and materials I could trade for. Someone else may have a .22 with a few boxes of ammo, or a shotgun they need shells for – and we can help each other.

    Given that there are probably more scenarios than there are people in your neighborhood, over time you can find out their concerns just by visiting with them once in a while. You may or may not find you have common ground to build on, but by making the effort you will learn who has various skills or experience you or other may benefit from.

    It is a easy trap to fall into, thinking that there will never be enough time, money, room, etc. to get where you want to be, and just fall out of the mindset to be prepared. But, by having prepared for something you are well ahead of the vast majority of those that believe they will be taken care of by the government. BUT, very few of the government workers have taken care of themselves or their own families so you can’t depend on them. To date, I can’t recall a single time the gov’t has done more than just barely deliver the most meager rations to people that had been hungry for at least a few days, sometimes more.

    In the end, you are looking at the person with the best ideas about what to do and how to accomplish what needs to be done when you look in the mirror. With you, your family, friends and neighbors you have what you need. That has always been a big part of the strength of America.

  4. Ron

    The only people besides my wife and I that I really and truly feel I could depend on, are half the country away. To try to get to them would mean leaving all our preps and our prepped home behind. It’s unlikely that they would be able to get to us either. So that leaves us with the idea of trying to lie low and hope that a few of our somewhat distant neighbors will turn out to be dependable and trustworthy enough to take in and include in our survival. But then, since we don’t have a clue when this is going to occur, things could change for the positive before that.

  5. Roger

    Your article is right on target. My brother lives in my area and in a SHTF situation I would like to invite he and his immediate family to join us, (which would cut our supplies in half), but I know if that happened he would demand that his adult kids and families also join us, which would be unacceptable – so that option is out. I live in a 55 plus community and the only plan that I have been able to come up with is that I have picked out three people that I would ask to join us. We would share our supplies with them in exchange for work and security duty. They live within a 100 yards so they could use their own homes at least part of the time. Although we are extremely well supplied in all areas I do not have much hope of surviving a organized assault on our home. But all that can be done has been done and I just pray of good fortune in a SHTF situation.

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