This post is neither meant to ruffle any feathers with regards to a person's gun-toting rights nor does it have anything to do with the recent school shooting tragedy. I'm all for a person's second amendment rights and my heart definitely goes out to all those affected by such a senseless act.
Rather, it's meant to get you to re-consider your actions and assumptions with respect to firearms safety when you lay your head down at night. While I strongly believe in proper firearms safety for those families that have young children (like me) that's not what this post is about either.
Instead, it's about something I hadn't fully contemplated until I began to wonder about the unlikely probability that I could actually get my hands on my firearms in the middle of the night if/when I really needed to, considering that they are currently in a gun safe. In fact, it would likely take me a minute or more to get to my weapons if I really had to. Certainly, in a life or death situation that's an eternity, but that's my current reality considering my children are still young enough to see weapons as toys. I know I need to educate them and will begin doing so when I see fit.
Anyway, I understand that many people choose to keep handguns, in particular, outside of a safe, perhaps in an end table, behind the headboard, or for the more paranoid among us... right under the pillow. Really anywhere that is readily accessible at your bedside and not in a gun safe is what I'm talking about. You know, ready to point and shoot! Now, with the expectation that many of us have not been in the military and are not police officers, my assumption is that we may not have been fully trained to function with a firearm in split-second situations. Certainly, appropriate training is in order.
So, my question to you is this: would you be competent, awake, and cognizant enough to be able to function properly enough to make a split-second life or death decision in the middle of the night? Not when you just laid down but literally in the middle of the night when you're fast asleep and in Never Never land? And let's not forget that many people either consume a few adult beverages before bed or may be on any number of prescription medications that can affect or impair their judgement... I assume all those medication warning labels mean something.
Think about that last paragraph for a brief moment. Can you answer "yes" to your abilities with certainty? If you truly can, then great!
Still not sure?...
Take me for example. I'm a very light sleeper. You would think this quirk about me would be a good thing if you expect to be able to defend your family and home from something like a home invasion or robbery. Personally, I think it's a bad thing because, although I wake up at the slightest of noise, it's a restless sleep at best. And, as a result, I'm often quite groggy and not very with it whenever I have to get up in the middle of the night to deal with something out of the ordinary, such as a sick child or funny noise I may have to check out. In other words, it takes me some time to get going and figure out what I'm doing!
My wife, on the other hand, can wake up at a moment's notice and be ready to function for hours on end without even flinching (part of being a midwife, I guess). I have no idea how she does it. But that's a glaring different between us that shows how different a person can be with respect to being able to function when they otherwise wouldn't anticipate doing so.
I can hear you saying "ok, just put the gun on her side of the bed." That might be a good plan but (1) she has zero interest in firearms which means it's up to me or nothing and (2) I like to keep obviously deadly weapons away from her side of the bed lest I not wake up in the morning. Really, I'm just kidding here. Honestly, she's a saint and wouldn't hurt a fly... I've got nothing to worry about... I'm almost positive, anyway. 😉
Really, what I'm trying to ask you is what kind of person are you, really, in the middle of the night? Do you (not *can* you) function with a clear mind at a moment's notice like my wife can? Or, are you more like me and need some time to clear your head?
You might think that a pure rush of adrenaline would be enough to overcome any grogginess but I'm not so sure about that. You are who you are and without significant training I would find it difficult to believe that you can be anything else, even when you most need to be. Remember, it's the middle of the night, perhaps pitch black, your head may not be in the game, and you want to bet that you'll make the correct decision? Hmmm... I wouldn't be my family's lives on it... who knows, I might have thought my kid standing at the doorway is a burglar or worse.
As for me, I'm thinking that the time it takes for me to physically retrieve a handgun from my gun safe is the best thing for our situation right now. It gives me time to clear my head and figure out what's going on. That said, I certainly understand that in a situation where seconds count, fumbling to retrieve a weapon from a safe may very well be too late. Unfortunately, that's a chance I'll have to take considering my quirks and knowing myself. After all, the last thing I want is to be wrong and end up shooting my kids because my head wasn't in it... my dog... he'd better duck. 😉